Easy, cheap, without stress. These are not words that are commonly associated with wedding planning. But a growing number of British couples are finding that sacred trinity by getting married in a particular city, New York.
Due to its symbolic location and famous sights, the Big Apple has an aesthetic appeal that is combined with its easy accessibility (straight six-hour flight) and even easier logistics. All you need to get married is a city registry office license, which you can get at least 24 hours in advance.
Rebecca Balcombe, 24, married her husband Neil in New York last May in front of close friends and family. “We were engaged in a balloon in Egypt. So we are not doing well. ” He says. Not wanting to spend 50 50 in Britain committing to a wider range of guests than they really would like, they were immediately intrigued by the idea of getting married abroad. When they decided on New York. “We would never be, we always wanted to go,” was just an internet search needed to settle the matter. “We are literally googled New York weddings, there are so many different weddings here.” They found a minister, a photographer, booked hotels in Times Square, a local restaurant for a reception, and arranged for a ceremony to be held in Shakespeare’s Garden, Central Park, all without leaving home. “It was incredibly easy to arrange,” says Rebecca.
Alex Bartosyak-Smith and her husband, John On, had a similar experience when they were married in Central Park 18 months ago. “It would never be traditional. We wanted to do it for ourselves. It was not someone else’s day, it’s the most important day for us, ”says John On.
They invited just five guests to New York, a city they already knew and loved, against the backdrop of the Plant Hotel for an intimate Gapstow Bridge ceremony, followed by lunch at the Central Park Boathouse and later cocktails at the rooftop bar. Peninsula:
Britain women collected their rings and outfits in Britain, while everyone else was sorted by phone or online. “I just called a few restaurants from the house and booked them, it’s clear it was stress free,” says Alex. Hair, makeup և flowers were all arranged in New York after the couple arrived a week ago. They were so determined that they would spend stress-free time, even drop off business-class flights.
John On adds: “When we go on vacation, Alex does a lot of research. So the wedding was almost a holiday, but we needed to do some extra work. ”
In New York, both couples lived up to their expectations. “I would not change anything,” says Rebecca. And since the location automatically kept the number of guests, the total cost was not like the average 21 21,000 wedding wine in the UK. Rebecca և Neil spent around 000 9,000, including flights և seven nights in New York for three people (their other guests paid for their trip). In some parts of the UK, up to և 5,000 can be charged before the cost of food increases, which may explain why many couples are attracted to the benefits offered by New York. If you really want to simplify everything, you can even hold a Civil Ceremony at the Manhattan Marriage Bureau for just $ 25.
Photographer Brian Friedman (www.bfreedweddings.com) has taken wedding photos of more than a hundred British couples getting married in New York over the past two years, realizing the charm of his hometown. “I think they are as fascinated by New York as I am by London or Paris. Many may want a more intimate, special affair. They do not want to have 200 people, they can get involved in some politics, they want to gather smaller. There is also a financial advantage. “
Sculpting this special place, Friedman believes that it is his duty as a New Yorker to ensure that his British clients have a successful wedding. “When you have a wedding where the couple is local, you do not help them as much as other people. But these guys come from 3,000 miles away, I felt like I wanted to take care of these people. ”
He adds: “It’s a great combination to introduce the British to the New York City landscape, because since I grew up in New York, I think I can do it. I see things out of the corner of my eye, I see a taxi or a bus or a sign that I know they like very much. It came naturally. “
Did marrying across the Atlantic undoubtedly satisfy her clients, and what about their families? “Everyone really supported us. If they could not come, it was acceptable, because it was a lot of money. “But we knew there would be some people there,” said Rebecca. “When we got home, a month later, we had a party for all our friends and family, so we really got the best of both worlds.”
By Caroline Bishop
And the best advantage of getting married in New York? You are already on your honeymoon.